We all know that there are four basic needs of life food shelter cloths and education . But For being happy in all aspects (materialisticaly and spiritually ) you have to fulfil this six needs of life
1)Certainity : Certainity brings stability to your life .Certainity means you have an idea that what's going to happen next .But imagine you are in exam hall and waiting for question paper. you are uncertain . in this situation you are anxious and in stress . So the Certainity is important aspect to live stable life.Suppose If you are in a private job (not permanent) . You may get fired, you will be always uncertain about that job. You will be never happy .
1)Certainity : Certainity brings stability to your life .Certainity means you have an idea that what's going to happen next .But imagine you are in exam hall and waiting for question paper. you are uncertain . in this situation you are anxious and in stress . So the Certainity is important aspect to live stable life.Suppose If you are in a private job (not permanent) . You may get fired, you will be always uncertain about that job. You will be never happy .
Because when uncertainty comes Happiness goes. Due above all aspects you will not use your all potential and not grow. So for being certain work on your skills and talent, invest in your knowledge so that Certainity comes in your life.
2) Variety :Everyone wants some new everyday. that why you open whatsapp immediately after wake up, to check that what new is on status of people profiles. Biggest Reason behind watching TV, OTT and Social Media to fulfil need of variety. Because You get always new content every day. The Feed on instagram is designed in such way that
It will never show same post repeatedly
But The Ultimate variety comes in your life when you become successful .Lets take example If Some one becomes IAS officer, He everyday see new situations new things and aspects of life. All people respect him with honour . If You get same dish to eat everyday. You can't eat you will be bored. We always like to explore new places and environment to fulfil need of variety
3)Significance : Everyone thinks that "I am important". People should value me ,notice me. This because this kind of act satisfies your ego. We all want being appreciated by someone for
work and good qualities (Talent). So we should appreciate everyone for his/her work.
Real significance in life comes from addition of value in people life and Contribution to society.When talent grows the influence automatically and you become significant .So please appreciate truly someone for his achievements and notable work.
4)Love and Connection :No one can imagine to live life without love and Loved ones. Everyone wants getting included. Love and closed connections with people
provide emotional support and empathy your in bad times and also celebrate your achievements in good times. Doesn't matter how much you earned in your life but you have not good relationships with other you can never be happy. Here the rule of Give and Take works If you give love then you will get love only.
5)Growth : This is every human beings need. We grow upto certain age physically. But We grow whole life intellectually with experience. This is very important .For growth you will have to identify your unique signature strength and work on it.
The Rule Of Thousand Hours :If you work more than 1000 H rs in any field you will be ahead of 95% people in that field. The Best way to grow is that do better than yesterday everyday .So you become better everyday and grow.
6)Contribution : There is one philosophy "If you support the world selflessly the whole universe supports you endlessly " And also a Boomrang principle.When contribute in someone's life you get happiness from Heart.When add value in people life you will be truly happy in your life. When you contribute you get feeling of satisfaction which is true happiness
May this blog add some value in your life
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Author: Vikee R Dhakulkar
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